SIGNS TO WATCH OUT IN MEN OF ABUSIVE TRAITS: 1. he will loose his temper at the slightest provocation 2. sharp/uncontrolled temperament in little things 3. threatens to slap or deal with you whenever you provoke him 4. drinks alcohol uncontrollably 5. addicted to tobacco/marijuana smoking 6. vent his anger on his personal properties when offended outside 7. easily fights others on a little provocation either for your sake or his 8. his gentleman-ship is tested when he's under stress and sees you not as a solution to his problem 9. nags at you whenever he's under duress 10. complains at everything you say or do with threats 11. use abusing words at you before his friends/ur friends and others 12. Insults your personality, your family members not left out 13. easily quarrels/fight with you or any other person he encounters.... 14. beats you when he suspects you are unfaithful/ stubborn or doesn't respect him 15. he seeks for forced loyalty, respect, submission etc 16. doesn't believe in your opinion as a partner 17. lives a BOSSY lifestyle 18. hardly tells you "am sorry" and mean it (some might do it as a formality) 19. frowns at every little mistake you make and doesn't try to correct it with love but shouts at you (he's the boss, you are the servant!) 20. criticizes all you do or say...call your opinions "RUBBISH" FROM THIS, shine your eyes..... better to break up now than in marriage!gbam